Would you still believe in life after love? After all, is said and done, after going through valleys and hills, after thinking and hoping you had found the one? He or she decides to call it quits and move on?
Do you believe there is a right person for each of us? I do. You know being in a series of bad relationships hurts but we should somehow pick ourselves up and rise again. It is not easy to rise. It feels like your heart was ripped open, torn apart and left to rot in the naughty corner. Right now after having bad experiences we should give ourselves a chance to relax and breathe and wait. You never know what the waiting can do. I’ve heard stories of people who were crushed but after through their healing, the right one showed up.
Love is a roller coaster ride. It’s either there or it isn’t. It is a feeling that we all experience once, maybe even fifty times in our lifetime. When you think you’ve found the one and then life changes course and now it’s like it never existed. How would you cope? How would you move on?
I am one of those people who (strongly) believe in love even if it did me wrong. It is hard to really accept and fully move on but once there is closure, everything else falls into place. Have you ever heard of a “hopeless romantic”? You can put me in that category. That category of “hopeless romanticism”. Love may fail but we should not give up on it. We have all gotten to that point at one point in our lives. It is such a rough road, that we fail to see ahead, thinking there is no future. When you get heartbroken that is what goes through your mind.
Sometimes I think that love doesn’t deserve to be loved. Why? You ask? After getting disappointment after disappointment after disappointment, it just becomes useless to keep hoping and praying that somehow cupid will hit you with his arrow and love will spill over, overflowing into every inch of you like it has never done before.
The other day I was talking to a friend and I was explaining how I thought I was jinxed or cursed because things just really never seem to be positive and the advice I was given was to take that out of my mind because eventually everything works out for the good. You could be in the same state of mind but remember EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR THE GOOD!!
It could be you are single, divorced, single mum or single dad but don’t lose hope I believe love loves us and it will accept to be loved. Yes. Love loves us. I believe. Do you?
